17 points that always keep in your mind

1) जो आपसे दिल से बात करता है उसे कभी
दिमाग से जवाब मत देना।
2) एक साल मे 50 मित्र बनाना आम बात है 50
साल तक एक मित्र से मित्रता निभाना खास
बात है।
3) एक वक्त था जब हम सोचते थे कि हमारा
भी वक्त आएगा और एक ये वक्त है कि हम
सोचते है कि हम सोचते है कि वो भी क्या वक्त
था।
4) एक मिनट मे जिन्दगी नही बदलती पर एक
मिनट सोच कर लिखा फैसला पूरी जिन्दगी
बदल देता है।
5) आप जीवन मे कितने भी ऊॅचे क्यो न उठ
जाए पर अपनी गरीबी और कठिनाई को कभी
मत भूलिए।
6) वाणी मे भी अजीब शक्ति होती है कङवा
बोलने वाले का शहद भी नही बिकता और मीठा
बोलने वाले की मिर्ची भी बिक जाती है।
7) जीवन मे सबसे बङी खुशी उस काम को
करने मे है जिसे लोग कहते है कि तुम नही कर
सकते हो।
8) इसांन एक दुकान है और जुबान उसका
ताला। ताला खुलता है, तभी मालूम होता है कि
दुकान सोने की है या कोयले की।
9) कामयाब होने के लिए जिन्दगी मे कुछ ऐसा
काम करो कि लोग आपका नाम Facebook पे
नही Google पे सर्च करे।
10) दुनिया विरोध करे तुम ङरो मत क्योकि
जिस पेङ पर फल लगते है दुनिया उसे ही पत्थर
मारती है।
11) जीत और हार आपकी सोच पर ही निर्भर
है मान लो तो हार होगी और ठान लो तो जीत
होगी।
12) दुनिया की सबसे सस्ती चीज है सलाह एक
से मांगो हजारो से मिलती है सहयोग हजारो से
मांगो एक से मिलता है।
13) मैने धन से कहा कि तुम एक कागज के
टुकङे हो धन मुस्कराया और बोला बिल्कुल मै
एक कागज का टुकङा हूॅ लेकिन मैने आज तक
जिन्दगी मे कूङेदान का मुहॅ नही देखा।
14) आंधियो ने लाख बढाया हौसला धूल का, दो
बूंद बारिश ने औकात बता दी!
15) जब एक रोटी के चार टुकङे हो और खाने
वाले पांच हो तब मुझे भूख नही है ऐसा कहने
वाला कौन है "माॅ"
16) जब लोग आपकी नकल करने लगे तो समझ
लेना चाहिए कि आप जीवन मे सफल हो रहे है।
17) मत फेंक पत्थर पानी मे उसे भी कोई पीता
है। मत रहो यू उदास जिन्दगी मे तुम्हे देखकर
भी कोई जीता है।

"कमी निकालना , निंदा करना , बुराई करना आसान , लेकिन उन कमियों को दूर करना अत्यंत कठिन होता है "

एक नगर में एक मशहूर चित्रकार रहता था । चित्रकार ने एक बहुत सुन्दर तस्वीर बनाई और उसे नगर के चौराहे मे लगा दिया और नीचे लिख दिया कि जिस किसी को , जहाँ भी इस में कमी नजर आये वह वहाँ निशान लगा दे । जब उसने शाम को तस्वीर देखी उसकी पूरी तस्वीर पर निशानों से ख़राब हो चुकी थी । यह देख वह बहुत दुखी हुआ । उसे कुछ समझ नहीं आ रहा था कि अब क्या करे वह दुःखी बैठा हुआ था । तभी उसका एक मित्र वहाँ से गुजरा उसने उस के दुःखी होने का कारण पूछा तो उसने उसे पूरी घटना बताई । उसने कहा एक काम करो कल दूसरी तस्वीर बनाना और उस मे लिखना कि जिस किसी को इस तस्वीर मे जहाँ कहीं भी कोई कमी नजर आये उसे सही कर दे । उसने अगले दिन यही किया । शाम को जब उसने अपनी तस्वीर देखी तो उसने देखा की तस्वीर पर किसी ने कुछ नहीं किया । वह संसार की रीति समझ गया । "कमी निकालना , निंदा करना , बुराई करना आसान , लेकिन उन कमियों को दूर करना अत्यंत कठिन होता है " 
"जिंदगी आईसक्रीम की तरह है, टेस्ट करो तो भी पिघलती है;.,,,
वेस्ट करो तो भी पिघलती है,,,,,,
इसलिए जिंदगी को टेस्ट करना सीखो, 
वेस्ट तो हो ही रही है.,.....

A peaceful mind can think better than a worked up mind... a motivational moral story

There once was a farmer who discovered that he had lost his watch in the barn. It was no ordinary watch because it had sentimental value for him.

After searching high and low among the hay for a long while; he gave up and enlisted the help of a group of children playing outside the barn.

He promised them that the person who found it would be rewarded.

Hearing this, the children hurried inside the barn, went through and around the entire stack of hay but still could not find the watch. Just when the farmer was about to give up looking for his watch, a little boy went up to him and asked to be given another chance.

The farmer looked at him and thought, “Why not? After all, this kid looks sincere enough.”

So the farmer sent the little boy back in the barn. After a while the little boy came out with the watch in his hand! The farmer was both happy and surprised and so he asked the boy how he succeeded where the rest had failed.

The boy replied, “I did nothing but sit on the ground and listen. In the silence, I heard the ticking of the watch and just looked for it in that direction.”

Moral:
A peaceful mind can think better than a worked up mind. Allow a few minutes of silence to your mind every day and see, how sharply it helps you to set your life the way you expect it to be!

"Knowledge is worth as much as gold!"

During a robbery in Hong Kong, the bank robber shouted to everyone in the bank: 
"Don't move. The money belongs to the Government. Your life belongs to you."
Everyone in the bank laid down quietly.
This is called "Mind Changing Concept” Changing the conventional way of thinking.
When a lady lay on the table provocatively, the robber shouted at her: "Please be civilised! This is a robbery and not a rape!"
This is called "Being Professional” 
Focus only on what you are trained to do!
When the bank robbers returned home, the younger robber (MBA trained) told the older robber (who has only completed Year 6 in primary school):
"Big brother, let's count how much we got."
The older robber rebutted and said:
"You are very stupid. There is so much money it will take us a long time to count. Tonight, the TV news will tell us how much we robbed from the bank!"
This is called "Experience” 
Nowadays, experience is more important than paper qualifications!
After the robbers had left, the bank manager told the bank supervisor to call the police quickly. But the supervisor said to him: 
"Wait! Let us take out $10 million from the bank for ourselves and add it to the $70 million that we have previously embezzled from the bank”.
This is called "Swim with the tide” 
Converting an unfavorable situation to your advantage!
The supervisor says: "It will be good if there is a robbery every month."
This is called "Changing priority” 
Personal Happiness is more important than your job”.
The next day, the TV news reported that $100 million was taken from the bank. The robbers counted and counted and counted, but they could only count $20 million.
The robbers were very angry and complained:
"We risked our lives and only took $20 million. The bank manager took $80 million with a snap of his fingers. It looks like it is better to be educated than to be a thief!"
This is called "Knowledge is worth as much as gold!"
The above indeed gives good management lessons.

21 Suggestions for Success

21 Suggestions for Success

1) Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
2) Work at something you enjoy and that’s worthy of your time and talent.
3) Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
4) Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
5) Be forgiving of yourself and others.
6) Be generous.
7) Have a grateful heart.
8)Persistence, persistence, persistence.
9) Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.
10) Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
11) Commit yourself to constant improvement.
12) Commit yourself to quality.
13) Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationships with people you love and respect.
14) Be loyal.
15) Be honest.
16) Be a self-starter.
17)Be decisive even if it means you’ll sometimes be wrong.
18) Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
19) Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
20) Take good care of those you love.
21) Don’t do anything that wouldn’t make your Mom proud.

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"Seven Wonders of the World."

A group of students were asked to list what they thought were the present "Seven Wonders of the World."
Though there were some disagreements, the following received the most votes:
1. Egypt's Great Pyramids
2. Taj Mahal
3. Grand Canyon
4. Panama Canal
5. Empire State Building
6. St. Peter's Basilica
7. China's Great Wall
While gathering the votes, the teacher noted that one student had not finished her paper yet. So she asked the girl if she was having trouble with her list. The girl replied, "Yes, a little. I couldn't quite make up my mind because there were so many."
The teacher said, "Well, tell us what you have, and maybe we can help." The girl hesitated, then read, "I think the 'Seven Wonders of the World' are:
1. to see
2. to hear
3. to touch
4. to taste
5. to feel
6. to laugh
7. and to love."
The room was so quiet you could have heard a pin drop. The things we overlook as simple and ordinary and that we take for granted are truly wondrous!!
If wealth is the secret to happiness,
then the Rich should be dancing on the streets.
But only Poor Kids do that.
If power ensures security,then top Officials should walk unguarded.
But people who live on roadside feel more secure.
If beauty brings ideal relationships,
then celebrities should have the best marriages.
But they have one of the worst relationships.
Thats why... Live simply...Walk humbly
Love genuinely!!!
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12 Simple Tricks To Keep Yourself Motivated

12 Simple Tricks To Keep Yourself Motivated

1. Start now.
Tell yourself to start this moment. Not in the
evening and not tomorrow, right NOW.

2. Set a performance goal.
Setting a goal helps you find your way
forward. This comes in handy for various
things, such as, if you have a bunch of emails
to reply to, or laundry to do, or bills to pay.
Setting a goal will help you tackle all of this.

3. Make an if-then rule.
The if-then rule is very simple. Suppose you
finish a task that had been pending a while,
treat yourself. For minor tasks, you can get
yourself chocolates or a nice meal. For bigger
tasks, you can treat yourself with a vacation.

4. Don’t think about survival.
Everyone learns to survive sooner or later.
Sadly, we are so worried about making
enough money, or doing things the right
away, that we forget to look at the more
important things. Instead of survival, we
should motivate ourselves to become the best
version of ourselves, the best of everything.
We should aim at setting an example and
nothing less than that.

5. Rise above your insecurities.
Instead of feeling jealous about other
people’s successes, try and figure out the
reason behind it. There must be a story. They
would have developed great habits, worked
hard and made certain compromises to get
where they have.

6. Get a routine.
Believe it or not, this habit makes a huge
difference. A routine can help you get your
life on track. It will keep you going. When you
finally have a routine to follow, focus on it
and try to get better at it every day.

7. Embrace discipline.
There are times when you’ll realise that
motivation isn’t the problem. Instead, being
non-disciplined is.
Has it ever happened with you that you are
constantly inspired to work towards your
goal, but you can’t make time for it? This is
where discipline comes in the picture.
8. Keep realistic expectations from yourself.
Don’t add too many things on your to-do list.
DON’T give yourself improbable deadlines.

9. Stay away from toxic people.
Stay away from people who make you feel
terrible about yourself. Keep miles away from
that girl who cribs all the time. And stop
talking to that fellow who can never utter a
nice word about you.

10. Understand the value of that ‘extra’ bit.
It is possible that you have both talent and
resources. You are working hard, but you’re
falling short because you are failing to take
that extra step. Think about it. Maybe you are
just that tiny step away.

11. Ask yourself - ‘ Do I want it bad enough?’
The answer to this question will tell you how
far you are willing to go to fulfil your dreams.

12. Stick notes.

You need to be constantly inspired. So stick
inspiring notes on your office table, or put
motivational wallpapers on your laptop. Every
time you feel bored, just look at it. It sounds
silly but these things actually help.